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Kevin Bob's Take
Relationships
Alright everybody. This is my column, and you're here to read it, so pull up a chair and strap yourself down. Do we all have any idea how much we can hurt the opposite sex? In the past week, I have seen at least four different cases of people hurting other people with their relationships. And, as I think we all very well know, I've just broken up from a long-standing relationship. What I'm trying to say is this: as males and females, can't we all just get along? It worries me how early and to what magnitude we owe our emotions to the opposite sex. I'm not preaching abstinence from relationships by any means; I just think we should be more cautious. Which of us can say that he did not pay the forfeit of a tear for a relationship? Before you start to mock those who haven't had that sort of relationship, maybe we should take a step back and respect these people. Maybe they realize that having a romantic or physical relationship isn't truly the pinnacle of triumphs, maybe they see that being great friends with people can work out better in the long term. Also, these people may have had some sort of relationship, but managed to keep it real, the ability that so few of us seem to possess. It's all about fun, and sharing your feelings, and making the other person feel better. If you stop having fun, or making each other happy, there's no point in staying together. This is not what relationships are about, not in high school. Can we all try and realize that a relationship should just be a closer friendship? It can be physical, and, though not recommended, sexual, but you need to remember to never, ever, take it too seriously. Thanks for reading everybody. Also, if you have any comments, Email me by clicking on the link at the bottom of the page. I love Megaman!
-Kevin Bob